Balance, Focus, keep moving!!

I had recently attended to a presentation seminar in search to aid my skill in public speaking.  I am terrified of going on to a stage and perform!  I would simply go ‘blank’ in my head!  It’s like computer hang!!  And yet on the other hand, I knew that without taking some PAIN I will never overcome the these fear!!  (Thanks for POE)  So I forced myself to join the presentation seminar.  And you know what!!  I had learnt a lot about how to deliver a good seminar and I felt so GREAT that I had allowed myself to sign up that course!  What I want to share with you is that IF I had left myself in my comfort zone and did not do anything about my fear to perform on stage, I will not had felt this great experience!!  I am not saying…

I had overcome it completely, but I know that comparing to what I had started off with, I had improved to become a more fluent speaker and are able to send my message over to my audiences much more better!   The fear had actually shrinked!  And with more practices I strongly believe that I will master the presentation skills whether it is a one-on-one or to a group presentation, I will succeed adn overcome the fear completely!!  I am smelling the success already!!  I felt so GOOD!! 

So What Had I learnt about this little venture of mine is that we are all learning very day!   When We don’t know how to do a thing doesn’t mean that we will never know how to do it!  It’s simply means that we haven’t invested enough time to master that skill!  It’s a matter of whether you are willing to PUSH yourself out your comfort zone to do it or you just choose to be left within your comfort zone, doing nothing.  I know IT’S GOING TO BE HARD!!  YET ON THE OTHER HAND YOU  ALSO KNOW IT’S GOING TO BENEFITS YOUR WHEN YOU WORK ON IT!  YES, THAT’s RIGHT! 

My cousin is a lefty (left handed) so he got to use a  left handed set of golf clubs.  Since it is rare to get a left handed clubs..  he practiced with using the “normal” right handed clubs…   I used to laugh at him for poor games and you know what!!  He is now a better player than me!!  Beating me with right hands clubs!!  Maybe all my laughs had made him so determined to practice with his right hands!!  But I am very proud of him!  We had promised a rematch end of this year!!

So I hereby Invite you all to go out, to do all the things that you fear most!  Focus on the outscome you want to achieve, and will you actually learnt the skills to master it!  And you might also learn some tips and short cuts to ease the painful experiences!   AND you will only find that shortcuts IF you Pushes yourself out of your tiny little comfort zone, am i right?  Yes, that’s right!  You know it!!  So don’t let the fear in control!  Its time for you to take charge and turn things around!!   And you know you can do it!!  Go for it!!   So focus on what you want to achieve and work on it!!   See you in two days time!!

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