Always Focus on the Right Things!!
Chapter 6
Today, I feel like telling a story about one of my best friend. He is a friendly and honest guy. He is the typical earning decent money person. What I meant is that, he is to work the hell out of him to earn what he thinks he deserves. (He is working a full time day job as finance auditor. He works as a bar attendant 4 nights along the week. He earns a decent Aussie $1200 per week. So his equation is like “MONEY = TIME + HARDWORK.”) He doesn’t believe about earning returns through investment. Eg. Investing into Funds, Real Estates and even Shares! So one day I asked him,“Yo, mate, I wanna share something with you. You ever heard of something called Options Tradings?” Suprisingly, he replied, “Those things are not for me la.” Hey hey!! He knew Options Tradings!! Thats means he might knows more about Options Tradings than me, isn’t it? But why did he said Options Tradings is not for him, while I found Options Tradings are indeed very interesting and I believe that it can bring financial freedom to me! Completely different point of view!!
After chatting to him, I found out that he has a LIMITING BELIEF. A critical one! He thinks he is always unlucky. He is a black sheep, a loser!! He said only bad things happen on him. Never the good things. From that day too, I realised that he always complainted!! I kept hearing him nagging,” See see!! Im the unlucky one again!!” ” Told you that I was the black sheep!” Then I finally understand why he had worked so hard now! Because he never thinks he can win in investing too!!
I learnt that, people who had focused on the “wrong” things are drawing more ”wrong” things to themselves!! ”I feeling unlucky today… scold by boss for being stucked in the traffic!!…. damn! punctured tyre!…. Soi!! Raining… left my umbrella in the office!!…. Shyet!! Traffics jam again!!” By the time you got home relieved, and yelled out “FINALLY the BAD day is over!!” I had plenty of those DAYS in my life! IT’S JUST NOT MY DAY errmm DAYS!! Heard that one before?
So lets revisit the day again. “Ooh~~ I did met an old friend during the lunch hour and had pleasant chat. Found out that he just moved to the neigbourhood! Nice!! More drinking “kaki” (mates)!! A new colleague joined the team! She is friendly and already being helpful to get the overdue tasks done!! Woo hoo! Another slave! Someone got off their car and assisted me with changing the punctured tyre and get the traffic flowing again! Thanks god, there still helpful people around! and lastly, back home the dinner was serve on the table and received warm hugs from the kids at home!! hmm… on the second thought, it’s NOT a lousy day after all!! Absolutely!!
Because I had focused on the wrong things! I had been focusing on the disasters all day long!! No wonder it’s a bad day for me!! What I am saying here is, if you consistently focused on all the goodies, you will always find the day belongs to you!! Everything seems to be so smooth with goodies!! Yea! That’s right! I do admit sometimes things might be unexpected, so what!? Get over it and let it go! The more you focus on the goodies, the more you will find!!
So please just don’t let my words lead you! I invite you to put them to test! FOCUS on the GREAT things that happened to you everyday! Always be thankful for the great things that happened to you!! Experience it yourself! I DID!! And my days had been brighter since then! Life’s too short for those lousy things.. Get it out of your system as soon as you are done with them!! And yet KEEPS all the GOOD ONES within! Focus on them! Learn to LOVE them! Feels good, doesn’t it? Of course, you bet it does!!
Oppss! My pal with the limiting belief!! Ya, ho? How? hehe… We will deal with him in chapters to come!! At this time, FOCUS on the GOODIES everyday and make it your AWESOME day, EVERYDAY!!
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According to the Law of Attraction, whatever you focus will manifest and that’s the law of nature. People behave in such a manner might be due to various reasons but i believe every intention of a certain behaviour comes with a positive intention behind. Spend more time to talk to him or let the more EXPERT people to talk to him.
Perhaps it’s not the right time for him to change or perhaps he needs a little bit of push from behind to allow him to move forward. I personally think that your friend would need to mix with people that are like minded to expand his social network in order for him to step out of his circle.
I would suggest that this friend could just open up his mind and look around as there are better things in this world which, perhaps would be more valuable. Family is important but a happy and meaningful life is all about BALANCING and each and every aspect of life such as friendship, career, health, family and most of all, personal development is equally important. One may rank each of them differently and there’s nothing wrong with that. Just that a little bit of balancing would do the tricks…
If your friend is looking at this, perhaps he may or may not think, NOW, that is this the kind of life that he may or may not want to be in. I believe sooner or later he WILL start to understand what you meant when he looks beyond 3 to 5 years from now about where would he be, what would he be doing and would he be happy on missing out the great fun all the people are enjoying. He may or may not but is there anything wrong with that?
Only he can tell and the answer lies in his heart and he understand it more than anyone else…………
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